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Celebrity Crushes and Supporting Each Other

I would like to say to every woman out there, stop hating on other women for the men they fall for. Also do not tell another woman that their celebrity crush is “not good”. Women can be very judgemental of who others like. Even when it comes down to celebrity crushes. I can’t believe how many people, when I was growing up, judged me on which celebrities I had a crush on. Honestly, it was disheartening. I know that Robert Davi, will never be in love with me or that Tom Selleck will knock on my door with a flower in his mouth. Billy Burke is not going to come and serenade me. Matt Hardy is not coming to sweep me off my feet. Shemar Moore is not going to get down on one knee for me. I know this but having crushes and fancying someone does not have to be realistic. It is something that we can all have, a dream. We need to celebrate our own dreams and value the fact that people have different tastes. Respect each other. Stay safe out there people.

Dear Dhar Mann

Before I went to bed tonight, I was watching some of your videos. Because of this, I knew I had to write this. When something gets into my head, I can’t do anything else until I get it out. I know you will probably never read this and even if you do, you probably get 1,000,000 or more letters like this, so a response is negligible. So, I am under no illusion that I will get a response which is also why I am writing it on my blog. For me, your videos have been a lifesaver. To use your words “you see”. I grew up in a family where abuse ran wild. Some people call how I feel “Middle Child Syndrome”, I call it surviving abuse. My family’s mantra was “don’t trust what she says” or “what can we blame her for”. So, I didn’t have the best family life, and still don’t. Between the abuse I suffered and the undiagnosed autism I found myself in situations as an adult that I was ill-equipped to handle. This further put a wrench in any relationship with my family. I was told in my late 20s my