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Family Vs Ohana

 For those who know me in real life you may of heard me call people my Ohana. Ohana is the Hawaiin word for family. Because of the difficult childhood I had and the abuse that I did and still, to this day receive from my so call blood family, I say the following; "I have my blood family, and my Ohana".  To me, Ohana is a group of people who may or may not (depending on your situation) be related to you by blood. Ohana is there for you in the rough times. When you are struggling. They don't judge you, they help you whether it is finding you help or giving you money. Ohana sees you in your good times and your bad times. They laugh with you, they cry with you, they joke with you, and they empower you. If you are Ohana to me know that I love you with all my heart and that I would give you the shirt of my back or the last pound in my purse.  My blood family can have their moments but it always comes at a price. I do not mean cash price. They talk behind my back saying things l

Updated: Review of O2 Network - Not loyal to customers

******************* UPDATE My review of O2 went live last Saturday. On Sunday I had made further contact with O2 and they agreed to provide me with a refurbished phone. I have now received my refurbished Samsung Note 10 and replacement sim. Unfortunately, this is not a fully happy ending because I feel that the only reason I got the replacement phone is that I told them the following; 1) They can remove the data package as I would not be using it and therefore will not pay for DATA 2) They can cancel the insurance 3) they can write off the device cost as I refuse to pay for a device that I do not have. I know I lost the phone but how many of you would pay £360 (in device charges) for a device you did not have, especially as replacing the device for new would cost you more than that. Whilst I am glad they rectified the awfulness that they put me through, however, I still say if you are disabled look at them more cautiously. I do not know if I will stay with O2 at the end of my contract,

Please help

I know I have not blogged for a while but there has been a reason for this. Last week was my birthday and I took the week off of work. Unfortunately my week off of work did not go so well. The Sunday night (the 4 th ) people were smoking outside my window for a while which triggered my PTSD. I could not sleep all night and when I was finally tired it was 6am Monday morning (5 th ). I then slept through to 12pm and set off people's panic attacks because they had not heard from me. My birthday was crappy. My own mother did not wish me a happy birthday. The first thing that she said to me was “I have to change the cat's vet appointment”. That whole day she did not wish me a happy birthday. My own sibling sent me messages in the afternoon which makes me think that they only remembered last minute because they started seeing birthday messages on my Facebook. I wasn’t expecting much but you know, feeling like a forgotten family member or a second thought was horrible. Thursda