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Loss

This year has been a wild ride when it comes to loss. It has been seriously crazy with the pandemic and people have lost a lot this last year. Even worse people are not getting a chance to say goodbye. Loss is something that is hard to deal with. I have lost a lot. When I worked for the NAAFI, I lost 6 people I knew in the line of duty within a small space of time. That same year I lost my grandfather who had dementia. By this point, I had been diagnosed as having depression. I now can’t attend funerals because I have massive panic attacks. A few years later I then lost my cousin who was killed in a car accident. Honestly, loss is something that we all will experience, at some point in our lives. Unfortunately, during this pandemic people are not able to say goodbye to their loved ones. Try and remember the good times. This is something that I found helped me. Remember you will never forget them you will always have them in your heart. Remind yourself that pain is something that

Women and Gender Fluid people born women

In light of the Sarah Everard murder, I think it is important to talk about safety for women and Gender Fluid people born women.  Being a woman can be a scary thing. You are always worried about what happens when you are out on your own. It is something that we always have to be concerned about. It has also something that you worry about especially when you see news where a police officer committed the crime like in the Sarah Everard murder. So, here are some things that can help with safety. Don’t walk down dark alleys alone if you can avoid it. If you can’t avoid it, be on the phone with someone else whilst you are walking there. Take some self-defense classes so that if you walk alone then you can protect yourself. Remember, if someone holds a weapon to you, following their instructions, it could be safer than fighting. It can mean the difference between Rape and being murdered. If you can safely get away from an attacker, then do so. If you live in a ground floor property or a

Celebrity Crushes and Supporting Each Other

I would like to say to every woman out there, stop hating on other women for the men they fall for. Also do not tell another woman that their celebrity crush is “not good”. Women can be very judgemental of who others like. Even when it comes down to celebrity crushes. I can’t believe how many people, when I was growing up, judged me on which celebrities I had a crush on. Honestly, it was disheartening. I know that Robert Davi, will never be in love with me or that Tom Selleck will knock on my door with a flower in his mouth. Billy Burke is not going to come and serenade me. Matt Hardy is not coming to sweep me off my feet. Shemar Moore is not going to get down on one knee for me. I know this but having crushes and fancying someone does not have to be realistic. It is something that we can all have, a dream. We need to celebrate our own dreams and value the fact that people have different tastes. Respect each other. Stay safe out there people.

Anti Lockdown Protests - Morons Incorporated

I am getting exceedingly sick and tired of the Anti Lockdown protests.  Honestly, how can these people think what they are doing is going to help? I believe in free speech and, I believe in the right to protest, but in the midst of a pandemic, responsibility is called for. In the midst of a pandemic where thousands of people have lost their lives, and many people have had to face isolation for months on end, reasonableness should not be sacrificed. You may not like lockdowns, but who are you to put lives on the line? The pictures I saw of people who were not socially distancing, not wearing a mask, and being downright moronic scares me. I have had to shield off my own back since March 2020 which has been difficult as I have had no support from the government. I have sacrificed seeing my family and my friends for the greater good. You morons in the Anti-Lockdown movement jeopardize all of the sacrifices myself, and people like me have made over the last year.  How dare you! You wa

Response to the Vulgarity I received

I was planning on doing a post about the anti-lockdown protests, or as I call it the collection of anti-lockdown morons. However, I looked in my DMs on my thank you campaign Twitter account and saw a lot of vulgar aimed at me for supporting the police. This is a reaction to Sarah Everard’s body being found and a police officer arrested for her murder. So, again I will say, I support the MAJORITY of the police. By that I mean, the 99% that join the force to make a difference, who do not let their personal ideology get in the way of the duty they have or the responsibility. No police force is perfect. They have the 1% who do abuse their authority, or are morons who let their moronic nature interfere with doing the job. Now you will say, “what happened at the vigil was wrong”. NO SHIT SHERLOCK! However, let me ask you the question, You are a police officer, you are asked to attend and do security at the vigil of a murder victim who was killed by an officer on your force. Would you

Love of an Animal

I wanted to write today about the love you can get from animals. At the start of the pandemic, I was alone. I had no one. I was here on my own, shielding off my own back because my medical professionals would not see the truth. Before the 2 nd lockdown, I got my two guinea pigs. I have two girls called Chocolate and Bright-Eyes. They show me love all the time. All they ask for from me is food and hugs and I get all the love I need. They are the reason why I have been able to survive so long with my sanity. Animals are important in your life. If you have a pet, they give you unconditional love and make your world so much nicer. Chocolate and Bright-Eyes make an amazing squeaking noise when I goto the fridge. They are then waiting for me at the edge of their cage excited to get hugs and food. It makes me smile every time. If you are low and have the capability get yourself a pet. I would say only get one if you can afford it. Don’t put yourself at risk financially.

Beauty and the Beast

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  No this is not a post about the Disney movies or the cartoon. I want to talk about beauty and the beast. Women, no matter their look always feel like they’re the “beast”. That is if they are not the “bombshell beauty” that society says is the best. Me – at best I consider myself average. I am no Amanda Tapping! I also know that there is this view that all women want the male “bombshell beauties”. Not the case. Well, not the case for me. For me what is attractive is variable. If you stuck all my ex’s in a line you would find it hard to pick out the common denominator amongst them, except that they're all men. Don’t take my word for it, see the picture below. I have pulled together pictures of various different celebrities that I have had a crush on and fancied in my lifetime. I would ask that you find 5 things that link them other than the fact that they’re men and celebrities. You need to find 5 things that link them ALL.   Did you find anything that linked them all?